Last week I went in for another 4D ultrasound and during that visit I had planned on asking Dr. Pacquiado her November schedule to have her deliver the baby. Well, when she walked in she had papers in her hand and had all ready booked my little man’s eviction date. When she handed me the papers I immediately said, “no”. You see, this entire pregnancy I have had my mind set on his birthdate being November 1st, or rather, All Saints Day. I figured since a lot of things during this pregnancy have not gone in my favor I would at least choose my son’s birthdate, isn’t that a benefit of having a repeat c-section anyway? Well, that date on that piece of paper has me down for November 2nd at 8:00 am. When I pretty much told her no, that I had wanted the first she pretty much told me that my only option is to come in on Halloween for another amnio and then I could have the first. Am I being totally unreasonable? Or, would you go with your gut and go for the birth date that you have envisioned during your entire pregnancy? I still have some time to let her know, she wanted me to discuss this with the hubby and to my dismay he agreed to go forward with it.
So, my dear readers, I am asking for a yay or nay on what you would do and opinions are welcomed.